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  You need to start slowly into the act of dominance. Jumping straight to it is the same thing as acting like a hardcore porn star. No, that’s not what we want. The skill you’re learning here is far better than being a porn star that is only there for the drugs, show, and money.

  You’re not for the show or money, but for the real game. In my understanding, I’ll say, the real dominance is 50% nonverbal, 30% verbal, and 20% physical.

  Rey Mysterio (the wrestler) doesn’t look as dominant as John Cena or as mighty as Randy Orton, but I bet he is capable of winning any of them in a fight. This is to tell you ‘dominance’ is not my muscles, height, stature, or strength, but by things we don’t say (body language), things we say with deep confidence and wisdom (attitude).

  Though, 20% strength is needed to accomplish dominance. You can’t be a weakling and expect dominance. Neither can you be a macho and expect dominance. It’s body language, confidence, commanding vocal, and wisdom. Having a deep voice alone can make you appear dominant.

  Being muscular alone can also make you appear dominant, but without confidence and wisdom, you’re not dominant. A dominant man easily figures out anything like a wise man.

  He doesn’t bother himself in trying to impress or let the world know he’s dominant. His body language gives it away. Most dominant people are indirectly seen as arrogant because of how confidently they carry themselves.

  They carry themselves as if they own this world. And yes, they do. They own women, but women own this world which means, dominant men own and rule this world. Everybody is under them.

  They walk and talk like bosses. They fuck women like whores and call them whores while fucking them and these women love it. A weak man will be scared to call a woman a whore.

  A dominant man doesn’t ask too many questions, in fact, he rarely asks. Even a woman who warns her nice guy boyfriend not to call her a whore during sex romp will be scared to tell a dominant guy she’s cheating on her boyfriend with to stop calling her a whore.

  In fact, she will enjoy it and it will trigger a stronger orgasm. She is truly a whore and only a dominant/confident bad boy knows this. Not all women are the same, but in the bedroom, dominate and watch her submit to your command.

  Once in a while, switch role and let her lead temporarily. This is only to spice things up for fun before it becomes boring. Too much of any good thing is close to bad.

  One thing every alpha male or any bad boy should do is to be dominant in the bedroom, but not too domineering. When you’re dominant, a woman will naturally be submissive. From my experience in life, most women want a dominant man in the bedroom. If you’re a man and you find it hard to initiate sex, then you’re not dominant. Luckily, there is a tip for you to use.

  5 Minutes Rape

  Don’t rape a woman, but read this. Some guys find it difficult to initiate sex with a new woman. It’s easy. The moment the two of you walked into a room or your room, lock it and do this:

  Grab her and throw her on the bed as if you can't help it. Act like a horny mad man. Kiss her passionately, breathe heavily on her neck, and teasingly or lightly brush your lips on her nipples.

  Everything should take seconds. Act as if you want to pull her panties if she’s on a skirt, but if she’s on a pair of pants or others, then unzip her quickly or tear it—no time to waste.

  Now, pull her panties half way (to see if she'll resist), then wear it back on her. It doesn't matter if she resists or not. She'll be confused and thinks you've lost interest—bonus mark = Push and Pull.

  Now, breathe heavily on her panties and use your tongue to penetrate her while the panties are on. Hey! Stop! Your tongue has now made her wet, so use your dick and rub the center or entrance of her pussy and try to push it in as if you want to tear her sexy panties with your dick.

  When you notice she's loving it or it's hurting her a little, then shift her panties to the left, bring your head close to her pussy as if you want to go down on her, but only breathe warm air on it—it'll send some shivers down there.

  Now, raise your head and teasingly rub the tip of your dick on her already wet pussy entrance—tease her more; put only the head in, then stop and once again plant a passionate kiss on her forehead, her lips, breathe and kiss on her neck to trigger another shiver.

  Look her straight in her left eye and say, "Baby, you're so fucking wet for me and I can't wait to fuck you good like a naughty girl. And you're gonna cum all over my dick like a bad girl. I'm gonna fuck you right now. I can't wait to pound your innocent, wet, and sweet pussy with my hard dick.”

  Then, rub the tip of your tongue close to her nipples—but not on it (it'll send a shiver down her spine again), and NOW, rub the head of your dick on her pussy entrance again. Look straight in her eyes while doing all these then, put your dick back in your boxer and cover her pussy as if you've lost interest.

  This "5 Minutes Rape" tease should only take 5 minutes or less. Yeah, I know some people will slip into 10-20 minutes, but try not to. Do it in a hurry and it should appear as if you're so fucking horny and she'll become extremely horny as well.

  Women feed on dominant emotions and moods, so if you act or pretend to be in that horny and dominant mood, she'll get into the super horny mood in seconds. There are no two ways about it. It's called buy one get two free.

  With this, you can dress up and go out with her for some drinks or any outing. She'll be dying inside, but will pretend not to be. Wonderful! While having a drink or whatever, you should sexually tease her a little more, but don't mention what just happened in the bedroom.

  If she brings it up, cover it up. When you come back, do the things below. But, if you don't want to go out, take off your dress and jump into the shower, then authoritatively call her to join you.

  If she doesn't come, then come out of the shower with a soapy naked body—take everything off her body and drag her in. Spank the shit outta her and use your dick to flog her.

  Listen, most women are not comfortable with their bodies, especially the sizes of this and the look of that. Some women even get so ashamed of ordinary stretch marks.

  Before you do this, make sure a woman is so damn comfortable with you, else it won't work. The reason women are easily comfortable with me in hours or less is because I never try to hide my flaws to them and they reciprocate in NEVER trying to hide theirs.

  In fact, all I hear is "I can't believe someone like you still exists." The above will work better if you live in your personal apartment or you rent a hotel room, else find a way around it.

  DOMINANCE: act as if she's a little girl and you're her leader as you control/lead her into what you want, but observe her body language as well.

  CHAPTER 9

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  OBSERVATION

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  his is as short as Ask chapter above. The aim of this chapter is to make sure you don’t ask too much. As a dominant man, you need to observe more than you ask.

  Being observant is a powerful skill. It will help you read anyone’s body language and mood. Most women are great body language readers. They instinctively know when they are dealing with an alpha male or a beta male.

  They know if a man will be great in bed by the way he carries himself. In the bedroom, it will be sexy to be a mind reader of your woman than a question machine who asks for everything—including where to put his dick. Observe, assume, and lead but when in doubt, ask.

  If you do something to her with your dick and she moans loudly, do it again later and observe if she’ll moan like that again. If you breathe on her neck and her moaning increases, do it one more time and observe if it will have the same effect.

  Whatever you do to her that gets an exciting reaction, subtly do it again or intensify it as you instinctively observe her body movements, moans, and utterances.

  Your brain should be an observation center and a mental book for your actions and her reactions. If she reacts to a particular spot you hit, hit it again. When
you observe, you won’t rush things. You’re not in a hurry. Though, there are times your instinct will tell you to rush, so do it.

  With observations, you’ll learn a lot about your woman without asking as described above. She’ll wonder how you knew all these. This is like a mystery to her. A man who does the right things without being told if it’s the right thing. This, to women, is attractive and intimidating. They’ll see you as a superhuman. Let me tell you a story.

  After making a certain girl squirt, she wanted the encounter to stop but the man kept going, then said to her, “I know your clit is sensitive to touch already, so I won’t touch it.”

  She was shocked by how this man knew about her clit being too sensitive to touch. This, to a woman, is better than a man asking, “Is your clit sensitive now?” Observing is better than asking, while asking is better than nothing.

  TheDAVIDO Graph

  In these bar charts, we’ll explain 6 types of men who will use this book or graph.

  Mr. Clueless

  Mr. ITK

  Mr. Moderate

  Mr. All-In-One

  Mr. Flexible

  The Legends

  The colorful graphs below are self-explanatory. If you take a critical look at the graphs, you’ll notice monotony in some and varieties in some. This is to let you have a visual cue on how these different types of men work in the real world and to enable you choose the right one to practice.

  In each graph, I will explain what is happening. Mere looking at them, you’ll understand where most guys are doing it wrong. Mastering this graph will put you ahead of millions of men in the bedroom. Below is a brief note on them.

  Mr. Clueless

  Mr. Clueless is as his name depicts. He’s a typical nerd (I was once like this) and he’s too focused with his studies, work, or ambition. He doesn’t understand how the bedroom works. He’s happy with masturbation and scared of the real deal. He knows nothing about sex and he has probably read a lot, but still scared.

  Mr. ITK

  Mr. ITK is as his name implies too. He’s the acclaimed bad boy and always tries to let the girl know he’s the shit in bed. He does everything in excess. Yes, he knows it, but he’s trying too hard to make a point. He has also read a lot about sex. Too much information is affecting him. Everything he reads online contradicts the previous one he read, so he has decided to up his game, but doesn’t know he’s doing too much to satisfy the girl of his dreams. (I Too Know. Meaning: I know a lot.)

  Mr. Moderate

  Mr. Moderate is scared of doing too much. Most Mr. Moderates are after their personal enjoyment and don’t care if the woman enjoys the encounter or not. Most of these guys are the educated ones and are in great positions in their place of work. They don’t like stress. Some of them are rich and can’t afford to learn new tricks to better themselves. To them, it’s a waste of time, so they prefer to keep it moderate. They cum and fall asleep immediately. “No time to waste,” is their mantra.

  Mr. Flexible

  Mr. Flexible is a man who knows the game, the techniques, and at the same time, knows his limit. He uses the power of ‘spice’ or ‘variation’ to get the job done like a pro. He’s relaxed and his graph in the bedroom is always different. He keeps it flexible. This week, his dominance may be 90%, but in another week or day, he’ll reduce it to 30% and make his immersion 90% or even 100%. He is unpredictable. In fact, he can’t predict himself. He goes with his mood and sometimes, alters his mood to fit the outcome he wants from the encounter. He adapts to any situation in cadence.

  Mr. All-In-One

  Mr. All-In-One has mastered all the things in this book, but he doesn’t apply the power of ‘spice’ in his toolkits. He’s more focused on making everything work and in the process, he’s focused on perfection. He doesn’t want to miss a single thing from the book. He wants everything starting from Tease to Observation to be 100% each. It is good to master all of them, but using all of them 100% every time is the same thing as Mr. Clueless, Mr. Moderate, and Mr. ITK. They are all doing different things, but with similar measurement at different levels.

  The Legends

  The Legends: Now you have it. The Legends are those who are the epitome of Mr. Flexible and every other Mr. in TheDAVIDO Graph. He is flexible, unpredictable, daring, crazy, nasty, dangerous, and at the same time, fun and emotional when it’s required.

  He knows the power the brain has, so before sex, he focuses on teasing a girl sensually and sexually until she can’t help it. She’ll be the one looking for a way to have him in bed because he has made her extremely horny. This is why sex is mental.

  He has mentally aroused her to the point where it will take him less than 5 minutes for her to cum. When he gets to the bedroom with her, he immerses himself into the moment and this is a guarantee for a squirting orgasm.

  He can also last longer in bed because he has learned how to do it from book 7. He has the power to great DicKing as the women above said. Any woman who encounters him, falls in love. Everything he does, even if it’s wrong, becomes right and fun to women.

  It’s not by the size of his dick, but because he has cured his premature ejaculation and now, understands how to use TheDAVIDO technique and the O.R.G.A.S.M.I.C method that’ll be discussed in part three to his advantage.

  Lasting longer in bed alone is enough to make you satisfy a woman, but adding this skill is a killer. No woman who encounters those guys who belong here ever want to leave them.

  The Legends can decide to act like Mr. Clueless, Mr. ITK, Mr. Moderate, or as Mr. Flexible. He knows his onions, so he decides how he wants to slice them. Most of these decisions are instinctive. They just happen as if it’s natural because he has mastered them, it’s natural.

  Doing something for long makes it appear seamless, fun, and great. It’s now part of who he is. The Legends are the GMCs of the bedroom—they are great in bed, not just good.

  PART TWO

  ANATOMY

  CHAPTER 10

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  FEMALE EROGENOUS SYSTEM

  If a guy uses FES to make out or tease a woman in the bedroom before the actual sex, she'll melt.

  4 Division Systems to Analyze the Female Body

  Top

  Middle

  Waist

  Knee

  TOM WAKE

  (Ignore the vowels)

  1. Top

  (From the beginning of her neck and above)

  2. Middle

  (From the beginning of her breast to her waist)

  3. Waist

  (From the beginning of her waist to her knee)

  4. Knee

  (From the beginning of her knee to her feet)

  A great lover MUST give special attention to ALL the four parts of Tom Wake. Each part of "Tom Wake" has 4 most erogenous zones or parts which are, namely:

  TOP (SET.N)

  4. Skull-forehead (scalp)

  3. Ear (lobe)

  2. Tongue (lips)

  1. Neck (back-of-neck)

  MIDDLE (N.SBN)

  4. Navel

  3. Side-by-Side

  2. Back-shoulder-line (arms)

  1. Nipples (breasts)

  WAIST (WIL.C)

  4. Waist-line (ass-tailbone)

  3. Inner-thigh

  2. Labia (Mm)

  1. Clitoris

  KNEE (I.KKF)

  4. In-between nails

  3. Knee-thigh

  2. Knee

  1. Foot-center

  Categorizing the 4 Divisions in Parts

  Part 1: TOP

  Part 2: MIDDLE

  Part 3: WAIST

  Part 4: KNEE

  You need to massage, caress, stroke, touch, kiss, lick, tease, and stimulate those areas while paying attention to her body language.

  The 4 most important tools a man has to satisfy a woman are

  4. Dick’s tip (4th most important)

  3. Hand’s fingers (3rd most
important)

  2. Mouth’s tongue (tongue, breath, and lips)

  1. Voice’s brain (most important)

  STAGE 1: Foreplay

  1. Voice

  Voice: The voice is the most powerful tool in the bedroom. It sends a command to the brain. When a man moans, talks dirty, or sends a command, he uses the voice.

  This is why it is the most powerful. A dominant man knows how to use it to control the immersion of a woman. Any woman who immerses herself, is bound to have an earth-shattering orgasm even without penile penetration. The voice controls and commands the brain. It inputs thoughts on people and thoughts are powerful when analyzed by the brain.