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Stand is when one of the people involved is standing or both are standing while resting their bodies on something and any variations or styles can take place.
Examples:
“Why is there no name on each sex style?” you asked. This book is not about sex styles or positions, but about being The Legend of Sex. The greatest. The greats invent. So, invent. If you take a critical look at some styles, you’ll notice they belong to two different positions.
Examples:
In the first image, the man is seated while the lady is lying. In the second one, the man is standing and she’s seated. You name it based on who you give precedence to. The man is the man here.
This is to say, you can do doggy style while seated, standing, or lying down. With this, you don't need to remember too many sex positions or styles. All you need are these three which you can spice to your heart's content.
Now, your imagination, creativity, and adventurous lifestyle will guide you to the outcome you want. Knowing this means, you now have at least 50 styles to try out as long as you're imaginative enough to improvise. This is where the spice and variety of sex come in.
You're equipped now. Starting from today, whenever you see a sex style, ask yourself, "Is this position sit, stand, or lie? And is the style face to face, back to face, slant to edge, or back to back?"
In fact, everything can be mixed up to slant to face, face to edge, back to slant or even, sit to slant, stand to face, lie to back, and so on. Don't confuse your brain—this is just a creative mixture of the 3 positions and 4 styles above.
During sex and based on mood, you can say to yourself, "Today, I'm only going to use LIE + any style."
Here, it can be any of these
LIE to Face (69, missionary, etc.)
LIE to Slant (spoon, scissors, etc.)
LIE to Back (reversed-cowgirl, backslide, etc.)
LIE to Edge (edge-cowgirl, edge, etc.)
When you see a position like this…
…you can name it by saying, "This position is LIE and the style is face to face, so I'll call it 'straight missionary.'"
Note: you can name it whatever you want, but if it already has a popular name, then go by the popular name or coin your name from the popular name.
Main Image:
The above image is stand, sit, and slant. Name it as you wish. This is improvisation. Now, take all these sex styles to different locations outside the bedroom, toilet, kitchen, etc., and the names will change, so is the angle and spot you’ll hit or the sweetness and flavor it’ll add.
Turning the image above upside down will give another position or style. This to say, one style alone is 3-in-1 when the position is switched.
Image Turn 1:
Image Turn 2:
Most times, turn her over while your dick is still inside and you have yourself a brand new style. So, any man who can do this and at the same time last longer doing it, is a great man to women. He will be sort-after.
This is the final secret of knowing or naming sex styles. There are only 3 positions and 4 styles/variations. The rest is creativity and improvisation. Varying them can give you hundreds of styles and you can name them whatever you like.
With this, you become an inventor of styles and not an ordinary sex positions reader. If you read, you'll forget. If you invent and practice, you'll remember. Switch the variations and you’ll have more than 4, but this book only talks about 4. We have kneeling, bending, and others which aren’t necessary for now.
Now, you have the secret of sex positions and variations, so make good use of it and stop being in your head. You’re bigger than that. I know some of you are asking, “Sir, what are the best 6 sex positions to make her squirt?”
My answer is: there are no best sex positions or best angle to hit the G-spot or A-spot. Though, some of them do stand out and they’ll be looked into soon. So, don’t just be a missionary man, but apply varieties to liven the encounter. What about immersion? Do you know how powerful it is?
CHAPTER 7
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IMMERSION
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ait! Do you know even if you know all these and you refuse to immerse yourself, you’ll still look like a robot? A sexual encounter without immersion is irksome.
It’s dull. In book 2 on how to text a woman, we discussed Playful Chatters, Boring Chatters, Aggressive Chatter, Sensual Chatter, Sexual Chatters, and so on.
In this chapter, we’ll understand immersion in the bedroom should always be sensual and sexual. Don’t act too gentle and out of the moment.
Be in the moment and see it as if it’s all that is left in life. Put yourself in the game and not a watcher of the game. Stay in the moment. Play it like a man.
In sports, there are some games you’ll watch and you’ll feel bad for watching them. You’ll see it as a waste of your precious time. This same thing happens in movies.
There are some movies you’ll watch and can’t help but call the producer a bore. In chatting, girls hate to reply boring chatters, but when they see playful and sensual chatters, they reply. She knows it will be fun unlike the nice guy bombarding her with, “Hi. Hello. Have you eaten? How has your day been? Are you there?”
These guys are boring to women, but they don’t know it. They wonder why women hardly engage them for long. The moment she ignores him; he starts professing how much he loves her.
This is like adding more boringness to the boring chat. Now, bring this same scenario to sex and it’s the opposite. When you don’t engross yourself in the game of fucking her, she’ll feel you’re boring.
She will fake orgasm and end the boredom. When you immerse yourself (put yourself in the moment), you’ll notice how fun and energetic the encounter will be. She’ll want more next time, unlike the other guy who was acting like a robot.
The trick about immersing yourself is: the moment you act as if you’re enjoying it enthusiastically by making all the right noises and moves, she’ll immerse herself too.
It’s like a mirrored effect. She’ll feed on your behavior and deeply immerse herself too. People fall in love and fall out of love. In this stage of immersion, don’t fall out. You’ll need to keep an energetically crazy tempo until she cums first.
After she cums, you may switch to a different level of immersion on a scale of 1 to 10. For squirting orgasm to occur, you’ll need to increase your immersion. At this stage, most women will start speaking in tongues.
Those that don’t know how to be naughty, will be dirty without realizing it. Immersion makes a woman open up. Let me tell you what I do to women to make them confess if they masturbate or not.
I’ll tell them a fun story about masturbation and how a friend was caught. In this story, I’ll confess some things I do when I’m alone. She’ll laugh and before you know it, she’s into the story and wants more.
At this time, I’ll make the story look like a discussion session. She’ll start telling me about her masturbation experiences and how she was almost caught. At this point, she has immersed herself in the story.
If I hadn’t hooked her with my story, she would end up saying she had never masturbated. This once happened with a religious girl. She was a virgin and the day I called her on phone, I talked dirty, but she wasn’t opening up. I asked her if she masturbates, but she said NEVER.
Months gone by, I called her again and teased her then said, “I really need to stop masturbation. I have been struggling with this. Sometime, I’ll promise myself I won’t do it again, but some weeks later, I’ll end up doing it.”
I kept confessing and telling her all these stories because I wanted to immerse myself in the moment. “How did you manage to stop?” I asked her. The girl that said she had NEVER masturbated started confessing on battling with the same thing.
She said, “Whenever I stop and promise myself never to do it again, I end up touching myself at night. I have been trying to stop too, but it’s not working out. The feeling
is so cool. It’s hard for me. I have been praying about it, but no way.”
I smiled as she said this. This was the same girl I asked months ago, but she denied. Why did she open up this time around? It’s because I IMMERSED MYSELF FIRST.
I made myself vulnerable by immersing myself into the case, so she had no option to hold back. She followed suit and immersed herself too. This is one of the reasons it’s good to immerse yourself first and the mirror effect will take place.
She’ll start immersing herself more than you do. By moaning as a man, a woman’s moan and pleasure will increase by at least 40%. I want to tell you a funny story.
There was a time I immersed myself during sex to the point I was the one moaning like a woman. She had to cover my mouth. This is funny. I didn’t even know it.
The immersion was so natural because I’m used to it. Immersing yourself doesn’t mean you’re not dominant, but it means, you want to lure her in to immerse herself too. This is where squirting orgasm takes place.
She’ll let loose and feel secure in your hands. Because you’ve already immersed yourself, she’ll immerse herself without inhibition. A woman without inhibition is capable of squirting orgasm. Stiff women can’t have a squirting orgasm.
Though, they’re capable of having it, but are too rigid and closed-up. Since squirting orgasm makes women feel as if they’re about to pee, most women will hold back. This is what I do to stop it.
Before sex and during normal conversation, I’ll stylishly bring up a squirting orgasm discussion and playfully talk about how easy it is and how most women are the reasons they don’t have it.
I’ll tell her how the urge feels like pee, but it’s not pee. I’ll tell her the joy I derive if a woman wets my bed sheet, unlike those rigid women who act too stiff and never enjoy the moment.
I’ll delve into stretch marks, small breasts, body shapes, and small ass discussions to loosen them up. Most women are insecure with their body parts, so I make them secure by acting like a feminist defending them.
I tell them not to worry about all these things shallow men talk about. They should dump any man who doesn't like their flaws.
I empower them mentally. I tell them how I don't judge because I'm not perfect and never will be and it's true. I make them feel safe, secure, and accepted.
Some do shed tears listening to my words. Honestly, women deserve mental encouragement. The media has set up a huge standard of perfection and it's hard for most of them to keep up.
I take this opportunity and give them hope and assurance of being amazing just the way they are. They take off their clothes in front of me with joy and no inhibition. They know I won’t judge.
They even fart in my presence. This is how comfortable I make them feel. This doesn't mean the respect between us is gone—it's 100 percent intact. They're just free like a bird.
This is the second secret of squirting orgasm. The main secret is somewhere in this book. This discussion is psychological to impress upon her not to be rigid like those other girls, in case the two of us ever end up in the same bedroom.
All I did is to prime her for squirting orgasm. In the end, she’ll end up having her first squirting orgasm because she knows I don’t care if she wets my bed sheet.
Most women inhibit themselves from squirting orgasms because they don’t want to embarrass themselves in front of a guy.
If you make a woman comfortable to be able to immerse herself, she’ll be relieved, immersed in the moment, and will end up squirting as long as you can keep thrusting until she erupts into a tantric and full-body squirting orgasm.
When you’re the only one who makes her squirt, the love and respect she has for you will multiply. She’ll be extremely open to you. She’ll tell you everything about all the men disturbing her.
She’ll give you her social media passwords because she’ll dump other men and won’t have a skeleton in her cupboard. I have experienced this. She’ll brag to her friends on how amazing you are.
Do you still remember the quote above? Where the lady said, “You’ll be blushing like an idiot?” and one of them said, “You’ll over-blush.” This is exactly the thing she was talking about.
It wasn’t the size of the man’s dick, but the immersion and ability to last long enough for her to squirt. The best part is, after squirting, keep going and don’t ever let her push you off. Though, her clitoris will be extremely sensitive to touch, but don’t stop.
Keep banging her as you immerse yourself even deeper and watch her have multiple squirting orgasms. This is the secret of multiple squirting orgasms. When a woman squirts, she’ll have no choice than to blush like an idiot. It’s as simple as ABC. In this bedroom game, you need to act like a psychologist, not a technician.
You need to think backward. Know the result you want, then start backward weeks before the encounter without her conscious mind catching you on9 your plans.
Use this backdoor and project her to the future. She’ll keep anticipating it, but won’t know you’ve already laid a solid foundation for her enjoyment. As she’s enjoying herself, the Love Emotion will be poured on you. This is how women fall madly in love until they can’t explain it. They’ll think it just happened, but won’t how you labored to make it happen.
In immersion, get deep into the moment and never look back. Act like it's your last encounter with her. She will reciprocate with an earth-shattering squirting orgasm. Make sure she’s healthy, else she may collapse. This orgasm is intense because the immersion was also intense.
Add immersion to every other thing you’ve learned in this book, and you’ll have a weapon of women’s pussy destruction and respect. If you can’t immerse yourself naturally to make her reciprocate, fake it till you make it. It’s as simple as that.
Sadly, you can only immerse yourself when you have cured your premature ejaculation problem. If you immerse with this problem, you’re going to be carried away and end up cuming first before her. This is why you should read book 7 on how to permanently cure PE.
We kept mentioning dominance all these while but never looked deep into it. What do you think dominance is?
CHAPTER 8
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DOMINANCE
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here is a bitchy girl in your street and she insults everyone including her parents. She doesn’t respect anybody. Now, you’re in the room with her getting down, don’t remember her attitude.
At this point, she wants you to cure her bitchy attitude like a real man, not a sissy. She wants you to make her act like the true little baby she really is. She wants you to dominate her even if she’s a feminist.
She wants you to dick her like a rugged bad boy and not like a merciful pastor. As you dominate her, also remember dominance is not by strength, but by confidence, control, command, and wisdom. This is not wrestling.
She wants to be the feminine energy at this moment while you handle and radiate the masculine energy without trying hard to impress her on how great of a fuck specialist you are. She just wants to be handled like a whore and dominated like a kid.
Question: “How do I truly dominate a woman?” you asked.
Answer: To dominate a woman is simple. Use the acronym of TheDAVIDO and you’ve dominated a woman. Tease her, Hurt her, Ask her only when needed, Vary the act, Immerse yourself into the act, Dirty-talk her, Observe her body language as you bang her like the dominant alpha male that you are.
It’s all about you being the Nelson Mandela of the moment. Lead like a GMC. For those who have read book 2, you’ll know what a GMC is. In this book, apply that same leadership of a GMC in the bedroom and dominate this little bitch until she screams.
When you dominate, she’ll naturally become submissive as she has been created. In the bedroom, there is nothing like equal rights. See yourself as her servant, but in a dominant way. Serve her, worship her, but still in a dominant way.
Give her 95% of the pleasure and don’t let your greed make you
request for payback favor. She’ll naturally do it herself. If a woman gets lots of uninhibited pleasure from a guy, she’ll feel she owes him.
Outside the bedroom, she’ll treat you like a king, buy you things, laugh at your dorky and senseless jokes, and blush whenever you say something cute.
She’ll just act like an idiot as the lady above said. From the short erotic novels above, did you see how he went to bed without fucking her? How he woke and took his shower? How he carries himself? And most importantly, how long it took him to finally put his dick inside her?
Did you also notice how he calls her MY bitch, hoe, or whore whenever the fuck is getting crazier? That, is an example of dominance. It carries a cool and breathtaking body language. It’s about being calm and sensual at first, then sexual and rough when things get heated.