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THRUSTING
In this book, there are four ways of thrusting
4. Shallow thrust
3. Circular or grinding motion thrust
2. In and out G-spot thrust.
1. Deep A-spot thrust
Most men don't use the circular or grinding motion thrust. Please, use it and you'll see a different reaction. I use it all the time after excessive use of the in and out G-spot thrust. (This adds varieties.)
The moment I start the circular motion, the girl becomes disoriented and starts grabbing the pillow, bed, or disorganizing her hair (she'll forget it's an expensive hair).
Women love to fuck and are willing to lose their senses when it's a sweet fuck and that’s why you should be great in bed. She'll hold her head with her hands; scatter her hair, and starts acting like a mad woman who's tasting sugar for the first time.
After sex, if you tell her about her behaviors or utterances, she'll say it's a lie. Circular and grinding motion thrusts rock! Try it today. Always use the circular motion thrust as a teaser.
When it's too sweet, slowly reduce the tempo and change to the boring "in and out thrust" everyone is used to. If you study music theory, you’ll know how to count beats or measures and the power of the use of rhythm, timing, and tempo in everything. Stay on the count/beat for every 4, 8, 12, 16, 20, 24 or 32 bars, but learn when you do it in staccato too.
Fuck Her Why Her Clothes Are On
Personally, fucking with her sexy clothes on and periodically removing them as the fuck progresses is a turn on to most men and women. Remove them based on how heated the encounter gets.
Something sexy must be on to make you go crazy. Shift the panties only to the corner and tease or insert your dick, instead of taking it all off. I don't know about you, but I dislike seeing a totally naked woman.
I love to use my imagination and undress a lady instead of being totally undressed. Seeing everything off is a little turn-off. It's like giving me too much. I don't like having everything.
This same mentality I have, most women have it and some men have it too. Don’t give people (women) everything at once, else, it loses its value. People love to work for things to enjoy the value. It’s more dignifying when we work or pay than getting it for free. Keep your dick’s value intact and undress her slowly.
PUSSY MANUAL – THE VAGINA
I'll walk you through on this because I have experience for more than 9 years. This is not just about sex, but about education and how the vagina works. Do you remember your puberty class in school? Yes, this is the graphic and more educative continuation of it.
I'll explain everything men need to know about the vagina. We'll only look at the important ones and how to find, maintain, service, and handle them properly (like a bad boy).
And we'll also discuss how to tease and make the pussy smile, go gaga, and live happily ever after. This will be short and concise. If you master what you’re about to learn, this knowledge will set you apart from most men about the female private parts and how it works during sex and after sex.
You may have known what you’re about to learn, but this time around, it’s delivered in a simpler and easily digestible manner. So, get ready and control your dick.
This is more like a simple science class about the pussy and how to treat it right in either rough or gentle approach.
We'll briefly look into the followings:
Arousal, Thigh hair (sensitive hairs – tease them), Labia Majora and Minora, Clitoris, Urethra, Anus, Vaginal opening, Hymen, Urethra, Vulva, Inside the vagina (pussy climate), G-spot, A-spot, Cervix, etc.
To arouse a woman, you should start your foreplay from text. Tease her like a little spoilt girl. The thighs or hairs around them are very sensitive—tease them a lot. The labia majora or minora are to be teased too. The clitoris must be teased with lube or saliva in your hand; else you’re doing it wrongly.
A finger inserted in the anus can detect a girl faking an orgasm and it can also amplify her orgasm if it’s real. The vaginal opening should be teased with the tip of your dick to build anticipation. If she’s a virgin, she may have a hymen which will block your penis from entering. It’s best broken when drunk. This book is not about virgins, so let’s continue.
The urethra can be teased when you advance your skill. If you don’t know how to do it yet, just tease it the same way you tease other parts of her body. So, the urethra is the tiny hole women use to pee. It can be stimulated too.
The vulva is the entire vagina. It’s the external genitalia that surrounds the opening of the vagina. It comprises all the things mentioned above.
Inside the vagina, you have a G-spot at the upper wall and an A-sport close to the cervix. The G-spot of a woman is only 2-3 inches inside her upper vaginal wall. Its distance is a knuckle or two of a man's finger.
When a woman is aroused, the G-spot engorges and balloons. At this stage, it becomes spongy. Any constant stimulation on it for 5-15 minutes will trigger orgasm as long as the woman is comfortable, relaxed, immersed, and in the mood.
How to Finger a Woman
That red spot on the diagram below is the G-spot. Don't just ram your fingers inside her and muse around. Know what you're doing in there. Start with only a finger (clean finger). Before you put it inside, tease her with it.
Wet your finger and teasingly play around her vaginal opening without putting it inside yet. When you know she can't help it, put a knuckle inside her and shallow-finger her. Grab one of her nipples and tease it, then push your finger to the upper wall of the vagina to hit her G-spot.
Slowly increase the speed as you simultaneously play with one of her nipples. From our Observation chapter, observe her body as you do all these, her reactions will tell you when to make it two fingers.
The moment you make it two fingers. Switch to the other nipple and tell her to play with the other one. As she enjoys this, finally make it three fingers and finger her roughly on her G-spot only. BE SO FUCKING ROUGH. Nothing bad will happen to her except an earth-shattering orgasm.
Below is how to place your finger inside her vagina to hit her G-spot. Note: some ladies may not have this spongy feel on that spot, but it’s still the spot. Give it a constant ‘come here’ motion and don’t stop.
As you rough-handle her, talk dirty to intensify the pleasure she’s receiving. Your voice or naughty statements as a man, amplifies women's pleasure. Don't ever neglect this. Though, all women are not the same.
Don't stop rough-fingering her until she cums first and pushes your hand away. If you want her to squirt again, don't let her succeed in pushing your fingers away—pin her down and even finger her harder as you call her bitch, whore, dirty, slutty, and nasty names. Most women love it, but won’t tell you.
Dominate her and treat her like a bitch. From her reactions, you'll instinctively know when to truly stop. Remember, women don't say what they mean and they rarely mean what they say. So, use her body language more than what she says. With time or months, you'll become a fingering sexpert.
Note: A fingering that is more than 3 knuckles of your fingers may cause discomfort. Anything more is going for her A-spot. The A-spot is close to the cervical opening.
It's meant for a long dick of at least, 5 inches and not your fingers, but your fingers can still do it. Please, make sure your fingers are well-trimmed. If you're down for oral, put your wet tongue on her clit and suck it as you finger her (roughly).
In fact, it would be better to start with oral (pussy sucking) before sliding your finger inside her. Don't forget to tease her with your tongue as the man in the erotic novel did.
In our previous part of this book, some people asked for best sex styles. For those yearning for great sex styles, here are 6 of them that are top notch and easy to do. They are the best with 2 of their variations.
So, here are our top 6 styles for the man and woman's pleasure based on how pleasurable, connecting, and emotional they can be. The numberi
ng is in descending order.
6. Scissors (one-leg-on-shoulder scissors and crisscross scissors)
5. Doggy (pillow doggy and stand-rest doggy)
4. Cowgirl (reverse cowgirl and cross-reverse cowgirl)
3. Spoon (facing spoon and 69 spoon)
2. Lotus (unwrapped lotus and reverse-unwrap lotus)
1. Missionary (pillow missionary, wrapped missionary, one-leg-on-shoulder missionary two-legs-on-shoulder missionary, and push-up missionary)
The above or below can be done in any location as it suits you and your partner. Each main position has a pictorial representation of its variants to enable you have more options in case of necessity.
So, below are images of scissors, doggy, cowgirl, spoon, lotus, and missionary. The acronym SDCSLM will help you in remembering them or add the “I” vowel in-between to get SIDIC SLIM as a memorable acronym.
6. SCISSORS
Scissors (below)
One-leg-on-shoulder scissors (below)
Crisscross scissors (below)
5. DOGGY
Doggy (below)
Pillow doggy (below)
Stand-rest doggy (below)
4. COWGIRL
Cowgirl (below)
Reverse cowgirl (below)
Cross-reverse cowgirl (below)
3. SPOON
Spoon (below)
Facing spoon (below)
69 spoon (below)
2. LOTUS
Lotus (below)
Unwrapped lotus (below)
Reverse-unwrapped lotus RUL (below)
1. MISSIONARY
Missionary (below)
Pillow missionary (below)
Wrapped missionary (below)
One-leg-on-shoulder missionary (below)
Two-legs-on-shoulder missionary (below)
Push-up missionary (below)
Extra style:
STANDING OVATION
If you want to make a woman go crazy over you, master these 6 sex styles. If you want to be adventurous, learn their variations. If I'm to pick the best here for the best stimulation on a woman's G-spot, it is pillow missionary + leg-on-shoulder, and pillow doggy. If you want to connect with a woman emotionally to enable you to make strong and loving eye contact, it is lotus, missionary, cowgirl, and facing spoon.
If you want a bad boy feeling style, it is doggy and spoon. They also hit the G-spot. Those two help you take her from behind and ram her like a domineering lion. As I earlier said, this book is not about sex styles or positions, but there you have a preview and an easy to understand naming system in part 1 to remember them.
“Sir, how do I initiate sex?” you asked. Sadly, this book is not about how to initiate sex. We already assume you’re man enough to initiate sex before reading this book. Aren’t you?
FINDING THE MISSING LINKS
Here, we’ll analyze TheDAVIDO Graph in part 1 and the FES System in part 2.
Mastering these two systems and the one in part 3 is the key to mastering bedroom greatness. In this final tip, we’ll analyze your current mistakes and your future mistakes. Knowing all these will put you ahead of time and you’ll know where you’re doing it wrongly now or tomorrow.
In TheDAVIDO Graph, you need to know what your weak links are. You need to understand where you’re having issues and work on them. If you don’t find them and correct them, you may still not master this skill.
Is your TEASING link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to teasing women in and outside the bedroom? Find it write it down.
Is your HURT link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to hurting women in and outside the bedroom? Find it and write it down.
Is your EMOTIONAL link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to emoting women in and outside the bedroom? Find it and write it down.
Is your DIRTY-TALK link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to dirty-talking women in and outside the bedroom? Find it and write it down.
Is your ASK link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to asking women in and outside the bedroom? Find it and write it down.
Is your VARIETY link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to varieties with women in and outside the bedroom? Find it and write it down.
Is your IMMERSION link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to immersing women in and outside the bedroom? Find it and write it down.
Is your DOMINANCE link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to dominating women in and outside the bedroom? Find it and write it down.
Is your OBSERVATION link missing? What is your percentage when it comes to observing women’s body language in and outside the bedroom? Find it and write it down.
If a link is missing, it will affect your final outcome. It’s good to master and bridge all the links, but intentionally vary them like The Legends or at least, Mr. Flexible. When you find your weak links and improve on them, everything changes. There will never be a lousy moment except you choose to.
Your exercise is: on a scale of 1 to 10, write how good you are on each link and work on those with low values which are your missing/weak links.
Example:
Tease = 7 out 10.
Hurt = 4 out of 10.
Emotion = 3 out of 10.
Dirty-Talk = 4 out of 10.
Ask = 10 out of 10.
Variety = 3 out of 10.
Immersion = 5 out of 10.
Dominance = 4 out of 10.
Observation = 6 out of 10.
In the above, you’ll notice you’re a good tease, but not great. Your Hurt, Emotion, and Variety suck. Your Ask is great, but as an alpha male, you should reduce it and channel it to Observation.
Your Dirty-talk, Dominance, and Immersion need to improve. With this, you’ll know your missing links and bridge them by getting information on how to improve them.
In FES (Female Erogenous System), most men have missing or weak links. They get too focused on a particular part and forget the importance of other parts which they don’t consider necessary. Any man who ignores any part is not a great lover. A great lover pays attention to all the parts.
Before we continue, note: since this is not about lasting longer in bed, we didn’t look into breathing, sex positions to make you last longer, dick sizes, Kegel exercise, PC muscles, mental training, etc.
In book 7, which you should read after this book 6, you’ll discover how to handle them and naturally last as long as you want in bed like a pro. Say goodbye to premature ejaculation, drug abuse, marijuana, alcohol, Viagra, or all forms unhealthy and nasty sex enhancers.
We didn’t discuss hygiene and protection via condom or contraception. This book is not for kids, so you’re man-enough to take precautions, shower before going down on her, or go raw like a superman.
Bad Vs. Good Vs. Great Lover
In this part of finding the missing links, we’ll look into the four parts of the Female Erogenous System and pinpoint where some men belong and the parts they’re only focused on.
3. Bad Lover focuses only on Part 3
All a Bad Lover is after is how to put his dick in, cum, and fall asleep. Women can NEVER love this type of men. If he’s cute and rich, she’ll stick around, but will 100% cheat on him.
It’s a must. Do you remember the story the girl told about her fiancé? She said, “I may cheat on him with James if I marry him.” He’s focused on only part 3.
Women want romance all over their bodies, but bad lover is only focused on part 3. It’s the same thing as treating a girl as a paid prostitute. He wants to cum first instead of making the woman cum first. Doing this to your wife or girlfriend is a guaranteed way to make her cheat on you with her ex. Don’t be this man.
2. Good Lover focuses only on Part 2 and 3
This man is at least better than Bad Lover. He focuses on her part 2 and part 3. And occasionally, kissing from part 1. These two parts can give women enough p
leasure, but something is missing.
She’s going to cum with these two parts or even with part 3 alone, but the sad truth is: she will not be fulfilled. If she’s a novice, she will feel fulfilled, but the day she’ll meet a Great Lover, she’ll realize what she has been missing.
A man who belongs here is safe, but should try and improve to become great because it’s the best place to be. Women worship and respect great lovers, but only respect good lovers.