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1. Great Lover focuses on all parts, from Part 1-4
There you have it. A Great Lover is a man who gives special attention to all the parts in a woman’s body while applying TheDAVIDO technique on her. This man can also last longer in bed because he has spent time learning how the ejaculatory system works from book 7.
Great Lover knows how to use the power of DicKing to make a woman crave him till eternity. He gives attention to all parts of a woman’s body, namely: Scalp, forehead, ears, tongue, lips, neck, back-of-neck, navel, side-by-side, back-shoulder-line, nipples, ass, waist-line, inner-thigh, labia, tailbone, clitoris, in-between nails, knee-thigh, knee, foot-center, etc.
He makes the experience natural and effortless as he takes time to massage her breasts, ass, kiss her lips, etc. He treats a woman like a goddess in the bedroom while giving a great amount of attention to all parts of her body, then fucks her like a dirty slut.
At the same time, he treats her like a queen outside the bedroom, but always cautions her when she’s trespassing her boundaries. He exhibits the attitude of the man in the erotic novel above to its fullest. Where do you belong at the moment?
QUESTION: Are you a Bad, Good, or Great Lover?
Do you want to be worshiped by her? If yes, then be a great lover. If you’re comfortable with the respect of a good lover, then remain there, but know your woman will cheat on you with a great lover if she manages to find one. Out of 100 men, you can only find at most 2 great lovers. Be one them TODAY!
PART THREE
O.R.G.A.S.M.I.C
Images of vagina added for illustrations
Female Ejaculation
“What is female ejaculation?” you asked. Female ejaculation has different definitions, but in this book, female ejaculation is the discharge of accrued emotional, mental, and sexual excitement through the urethra as a form of fluid excretion during sexual intercourse or any intense sexual stimulation with the help of the Skene’s gland.
Orgasm
“What about orgasm?” you asked again. An orgasm is the sweet sensation felt during ejaculation. Penetrative sex is good for an orgasm, but some men think it’s all about pounding her hard until she cums even without touching the clit. Yes, it does, but you can do better.
At the end of this part of the book, you’ll know all the right hidden spots to stimulate to get her hot and bothered until she squirts like a dirty little bitch. Before that, you need to know about sensate focus. It helps in building anticipation.
Sensate Focus
In foreplay, apply a Tantric sex technique called the sensate focus. How it works is: you “focus” 100% on sensuality, not sexuality. Don’t make her orgasm, but make her yearn for orgasm.
This is to say, don’t touch her genitals, but subtly tease around them as you caress and massage her entire body. This scenario will trigger the urge to have sex with you, but don’t yield to her urge.
Allow the pressure to build until she can’t endure it any longer. Your purpose is not to give her an orgasm, but to starve her of orgasm as you give her body a sensual treat she’ll remember.
This Tantra sensate focus forces you to learn how your woman’s body works and how to pleasure her better. In life, when there is no pressure during public speaking, most people stay relaxed and give the best speech.
There is no pressure on your side for her to orgasm, but there is pressure on her body and on her side for you to touch her genitalia, whenever your hand is close to it, but you’re not doing it anytime soon.
Keep exploring her sensually, not sexually. Time for sexuality will come, but for now, focus on “sensuality” and connecting to her emotions, her mental side, with varieties of touches and caresses as you build her sexual anticipation through your sensual touches.
If you can do this for 30 minutes to 1 hour, which I know you can, she’ll soon cry and beg you to fuck her, but don’t yet. Sadly, not all women secrete enormous natural lubricant for the real sex to take place.
Lubrication Note
Natural lubrication is the best and you’ll achieve this if you’ve had enough foreplay outside the bedroom through dirty chatting and more foreplay inside the bedroom with teasing and dominance. I hope you still remember TheDAVIDO technique.
If it’s a one-night stand or with a lady you don’t have enough bond with, they may not be comfortable to be relaxed and become naturally lubricated.
In a case of lack of lubrication, get a KY jelly lube or any popular water lubricant in your area and apply it on. Never touch her clitoris dry. Sex is more mental, so try to arouse her brain first. During orgasm, a lot of things happen which most men never notice or even know about.
What Happens During Orgasm?
A woman experiences sex flush—which is the reddening of her skin—depending on her skin tone. This takes place when blood flow increases as she inches closer to orgasm.
Her clitoris becomes hard as the vagina moistens. After this increase, the high arousal, the vagina (or the vaginal wall) tightens despite being dilated and expanded during arousal, then the involuntary climax follows suit and the body starts to spasm uncontrollably as she loses her thoughts while yielding to the “sweet” sensation on her body and brain.
There are obvious physical changes during orgasms like moaning louder than before, the labia minora getting a little darker, the clitoris becoming more sensitive, then retracts under the hood for safety like a shy little girl without a romantic partner in a party.
Romantic Setup
You can do this to your taste, but here are some recommendations:
Keep your bedroom clean and fresh.
You can play some calming music and put up some candles or it can be a dimmed light.
Spraying a little perfume in the room or any type of pleasant scent.
Let there be wine by the side in case the two of you want to take some soft drink and relax your mind as you gaze into each other’s eyes.
You, as the man, should wear something light, new, and sexy. She should wear something like lingerie or any type of sexy and seductive clothing too.
There Are Four Types of Orgasms
Mental orgasm
Clitoral orgasm
Vaginal orgasm
Anal orgasm
These four orgasms are like partners-in-crime. They work together as friends, so you may not need to achieve them differently. Applying all of them in one orgasm is the best ever. You’ll learn how in Multi-staggering orgasm chapter below. It’s all about multi-tasking as you simultaneously hit all the right spots during sex.
4 Sex Motions
In and out (default)
Up and down (arm-thrust)
Side by side (slide)
Circular (grind)
Grind can be in and out grinding, side by side grinding, or up and down grinding. During grinding, you need to be as deep as possible inside of her.
Despite having 4 types of orgasm, there are different kinds or variations of orgasms with the help of the four types above.
8 VARIATIONS OF ORGASMS
Though, there are lots of variations of orgasms, but this book focuses on the best of orgasms you should give her if you want to be a great "legendary" lover.
In this book, O.R.G.A.S.M.I.C is an acronym which stands for:
Ordinary “O-spot” orgasm
Rounded-Clitoral orgasm
G-spot orgasm
A-spot orgasm
Staggering orgasm
Multi-staggering orgasm
Interaction
Cuddle
You’ll discover something you never thought of soon, so read with focus and learn all you can today to become a great lover, not just a good lover. You’ve already bought this book, so you should try to get to the finish line of being a great lover.
CHAPTER 11 LEVEL 1
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ORDINARY “O-SPOT” ORGASM
“S
hould I ignore the clit and just
pound her?” Are you crazy? The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, so ignoring it and focusing on just pounding the vagina will lead to ordinary orgasm.
With penetration only, you activate just one erogenous zone, which is the nerve ending at the entrance of the vaginal wall—it’s not as arousing as some of the erogenous zones you’ll soon learn about.
Though, the nerves in the labia minora contribute to the nerves of the vaginal wall when pounding her, but mastering each of these other nerves ending with intense foreplay is what causes real orgasm—and not pounding away like a porn star on drugs.
Pounding is good, but you’ll learn how to do it the right way and hit all the spots you need to get her a real orgasm. Before penetrative sex, you should make her cum during foreplay.
O-spot. Some men who don’t have bedroom game but with longer penises do accidentally give women an orgasm, but if you ask them what they did to make her cum, they’ll not be able to explain.
Some will say, “I just pounded her hard and rough and she came.” What he doesn’t know is, he gave an ordinary orgasm through the help of accidentally brushing the O-spot during the pounding because of the length of his penis.
How to Locate It
Can you locate the G-spot? If yes, then O-spot is opposite the G-spot, but as deep as the A-spot. It’s also a spongy area as the G-spot, but this time around, it’s the back wall of her vagina. Its orgasm is like a mini-anal orgasm.
The O-spot is further inside the vagina, but behind the cervix. When men who don’t know what they’re doing bang a woman harder, their dicks touch the “O” area and she will have an “ordinary” orgasm—as I termed it.
CHAPTER 12 LEVEL 2
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ROUNDED-CLITORAL ORGASM
T
he nerves endings of the clitoris reach most of the spots in her vulva to a certain degree. It stretches like a tentacle and this is why the clit is extremely important for a woman to have an orgasm.
The vagina is not that sensitive except the labia and the entrance wall. Yes, it’s sensitive, but not as sensitive as the clitoris. This is why the clit is important for stimulation and this is also why the clit gets extremely sensitive after the first orgasm.
Though, 2 to 3 inches deep inside the vagina—the frontal wall is extremely sensitive when engorged because of the nerve endings there. All women can squirt, but not all girls can squirt.
Now you’re confused. What I mean is: if you train a girl to squirt, she will, but if you don’t train her, she may not until she gets older and understands her body better.
In training her, it doesn’t start in the bedroom, but outside the bedroom through communication and humor. She needs to be relaxed and she needs to trust you to let go and wet your bedsheet without inhibition. This is to say, the psychological and mental aspect of sex is even more important than the physical process.
The more knowledgeable she knows you know about female anatomy, the more she’ll be willing to surrender. When you’re sick and you’re in a hospital, don’t you always surrender to a doctor? Yes, you do.
That’s how women surrender to great lovers. The real goal of getting a girl to squirt is giving her the most intense orgasm ever. A squirting orgasm can make a woman seize up in ecstasy—it’s the most overwhelming feeling any human can attain and whoever triggers this feeling in a woman gets loved by the woman than other men.
I hope you know that women love sex more than men, but men are more eager for it as if they’re sex-starved. Oh, yes, some are, but don’t be one of them—learn to control yourself.
The clit deserves some torture and at the same time, some respect when it’s too sensitive. The clitoris is just like the head of a man’s dick, but with 8,000 nerve endings.
To start stimulating the clit, you don’t need to go head-on, but start with a side touch, some tease, then slowly move towards the center. As she begins to moan, you need to increase the pressure, then stabilize your rhythm with an up and down motion—based on her body language. Lubricate your hand first.
Now, start the rounded or circular motion with all your fingers and watch her moans increase. The reason for using more than one finger in the rounded-clit motion is because it helps in touching some parts of her labia as you give her Rounded-Clitoral orgasm or simply, clitoral orgasm.
As she’s getting closer to orgasm, her muscles become tensed and primed for contraction, her clit will slowly retract back into the clitoral hood.
If this starts to happen, use the other hand and press her vaginal lips upward to expose more of the clit to get a direct and moderately intense stimulation with a steady rhythm. If it’s taking her too long to orgasm and you’re into oral sex, then replace your finger with your tongue and write the English alphabet or her name with your tongue in a zigzag manner without taking your mouth off.
While doing this, mentally choose a rhythm that matches her moans and repeat the ones you noticed made her scream or moan the loudest. To add more effect to her ecstatic moment, you need to a little mouth vibration by “suck-humming” as if what you’re licking is too sweet for you to handle and you can’t help but make some deep and resonating sounds with your hungry mouth.
As you do the suck-humming, your breath will add its effect and intensity too. As she moans, don’t ever stop what you’re doing. Keep going as you use your second hand to play with her nipple.
The more intense, the quicker she’ll cum and when it’s that time, she’ll definitely want you to stop, but be adamant and continue. Pretty soon, she’ll cum all over the sheet.
As the final contraction that triggers the main orgasm kicks in, keep the exact rhythm going. As she screams and tries to grab anything around, don’t still stop. Yes, some women will try to push you off during this heated moment, but don’t bulge—continue doing what is working.
The moment she cums first, she will start calming down her breath. Sadly, at this time, her clit will become extremely sensitive to touch, so you need to let her rest for a while (fifty seconds to some minutes) or you can gently continue playing with the side of her clit without touching the center. The moment she smiles, start again if you still want to give her more clitoral orgasm.
CHAPTER 13 LEVEL 3
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G-SPOT ORGASM
T
his is the spot people always know first in all the spots inside a woman’s vagina. Thanks to Ernst Gräfenberg. The G-spot is a mystery to some, but it shouldn’t be for you. Unfortunately, in most women, you can only feel the G-spot when she’s extremely aroused, else, you won’t. This is why there are debates on whether it truly exists in all women or it’s just a myth invented by sexologists. You’ll learn about the G-spot soon, but do you know to stimulate it?
Two Ways of G-Spot Stimulation
Finger Thrusting: Slide 2-3 inches or two fingers while she lies on the bed, then curl it upward to touch the spongy spot—now thrust that spongy place as fast as you can, but start slowly at first and let her “moan language” guide you to increase the tempo.
Arm Thrusting: Locate the G-spot as you did in finger thrusting, but this time, your arm does the movement, not your fingers. The job of your finger is to point the spongy area while your full arm handles the pressure or movement by continuously going up and down while your fingers are glued on her G-spot with enough pressure.
The harder and faster you do it, the quicker she’ll cum. Though, you need to know when you’re causing pains through her body language, then reduce the pressure.
For a better and amplified stimulation, use your other hand and press down her pubic bone (mons pubis) to a comfortable state. Then tell her to rub her clit fast and hard at the same time or you can do it yourself.
To make her explode, use your tongue and suck her clit while doing the arm thrusting or finger thrusting. If she’s relaxed and well-aroused when you do this, she’ll have one of the BEST orgasms of her life. She’ll go completely wild—guaranteed.
To
make a girl squirt, you must figure out her anatomy and get acquainted with her body, mind, and soul—since sex is more mental than physical.
When a woman is about to orgasm, she’ll feel like she needs to pee and tries to push you off, but don’t stop—you’re just a few seconds away to orgasm. Most women feel a whole body orgasm through the G-spot and since it’s the G-spot, not the clit, which requires some waiting period because of the clit’s sensitivity, she has a higher chance of multiple orgasms if you continue with the G-spot stimulation.